Beyadab

Quiet Sunday at home. 11th Ramadhan 1444H. The first third of Ramadhan 1444H is done and dusted. Alhamdulillah. May the next two-thirds be even better for us all, may it be a time where we can maximise the benefits as much as possible, may Allah SWT’s Mercy, Forgiveness and Light be ours during this special time and always. May we all get to meet the Night of Power ~ Laylatul Qadr and obtain all its Blessings. Aameen.

Wes is at the gym, I am at home… thinking of going out to get some agar-agar strips to make dadih (milk pudding) using my #FrauThermoSechs for iftar later. We’ll see if I am going to be bovvered 😅

I am hoping to take Alex and Sascha out to practise their driving later. I am not going to allow them to drive until they gain more confidence in driving. That confidence will only come with practice, natch. Problem is, every time I tell them, “Lets go practise!” they are too tired lah, want to rest lah.. 😑


I received a Waksep message from my cousin Kak Yuni this morning, asking me to forward her message about the fara’id hearing that will be taking place next Monday on Allahyarham my Pak Long’s property. Dad, my uncle and my auntie are going to waive their rights to their portion of the property but they will have to fill a particular form for that.

What I don’t understand is, why can’t she do all this herself? Why can’t she contact my father, Ayah Alang and Mak Chu herself? Bukan lebih molek dan beradab kalau buat gitu? Better still, go see her uncles and auntie personally to get her work done. I know my Dad is not happy that she can’t be bothered to come see him personally, he kvetches about it… but what can I do if my cousin chooses to be beyadab to the max? I am sure Allahyarhamhuma my Pak Long and Mak Long (Kak Yuni’s parents) never raised her to be so rude and beyadab as she is now.

I kinda resent the fact that she is treating me like her messenger girl/secretary. Banyaaaak cantik! However, verily I am fasting… sesungguhnya aku berpuasa… so I can’t be bothered to raise a stink. Biarlah. Moga menjadi pahala buatku. Aameen.🤲🏻

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